Are You Stuck In The Herd…..I Was And Was Not Aware Of It Either!
We are herd animals and when herd animals get separated from the herd, they get nervous and suffer fear. it’s not “natural”. it doesn’t feel “right”. it doesn’t feel “normal”. When we stop being a part of the JOB Herd, not only do we have to deal with critiques from others in the JOB Herd we may have left, we also have to deal with the naysayers because, when we leave the JOB, we’re leaving the herd.
I personally have never been one to be in agreeance with others all the time, however allowed myself to be caught up in the herd and with the masses. I continually strived for success by working harder and longer to achieve the result I was looking to achieve.
The problem with this was that someone else was in control; gave the direction, then did not follow through; set the targets, without a plan and raise the bar increasing the goals, then moving the goal posts
I realised I deserved more, deserved better in life than where I was. I was not going to achieve what I wanted to achieve. So I went in search of something that was going to allow me to live the life I was looking to create. Be in control!
I had noticed that, when I decided to leave the herd, the great majority of our friends and acquaintances seemed less than supportive? I certainly had the feeling that many of these same friends and acquaintances would really like nothing better than to see us fail? Why do you suppose that is?
Because we’re making them nervous, it can’t be better. They don’t want you to leave. It’s self-preservation that motivates their attempts to sabotage your opportunity, to pull you back into the herd. If you study history in even the most superficial way, you know that there is no honour in self-preservation. The vast majority of people will do anything to survive, to maintain the status quo, to avoid the pain of change.
Well, I’ve left the herd; your doubting advice I do not choose to hear any more.
I prefer the company of Warriors!
What can you do to make changes in your life to get out of the HERD?
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